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Discipline comes in all shapes and sizes. Punishment though is a different beast. Punishment is for very severe infractions.
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topic Next topic. Alternative Punishments. Last week I had a conversation Minivan sex position a "Dom" who told me that " I would not make a good sub because there would be no way to punish me if I stepped out of line".
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Because of it, I have a very high pain tolerance. I enjoy impact play but I would get seriously hurt if it went to far.
This alleged "sir" seems to think that impact play would be the only acceptable form of punishment. Would anyone care to enlighten this poor, unfortunate soul Fucking the babysitter story some more creative forms of punishment? Impact play is rarely used as a serious punishment in my relationship. My dom knows I'm way too into it, and has found plenty of other creative ways to punish me.
I think punishments can Sister in law valentines day a lot depending on the dynamic, and considering impact play a punishment, much less the only one is so limiting it's a bit shocking someone would consider themselves a dom and have that opinion. Timeouts - Nothing like kneeling facing a wall until your dom decides to end the punishment to make you really rethink whatever you've done.
Orgasm denial - I'm way too quick to get into a state where I'm absolutely dying to cum, so this one Best blow job stories an especially effective deterrent for me. My dom uses it most commonly when I admit to cumming without permission, it's a perfect case of the punishment fitting the infraction. Wet willies - disgusting. Pain doesn't always need to be the punishment, there are many things that effect the submissive and create change in behaviors. A good submissive is made from more than pleasure and pain tempering.
The punishment should fit the crime
There are also Emotional ways to punish a submissive or even repetitive tasks. If they love their collar, take it away Restricting activities or likes is another. Denial works too.
What about humiliation? Boring or repetitive tasks are good if your dealing with child like acts!
Write lines, stand in a corner etc. Another is you not inflecting the pain but they do Pee holding stories on themselves or to themselves like holding pennies against a wall one for each finger in whatever position you choose. I personally like use noses for this! Leave them till muscles ache and their mind is blank! While you explain why what they did was so wrong. Sensory deprivation is another. Another fav of mine is overly giving a sub what they want, overloading them. For EG a whinny Punishment for submissives that is always begging to cum.
Non stop orgasms till they beg you to stop! Write the infraction on their body with permanent Big black cock near me so its seen and read daily. Heck, i've even heard of subs learning Morse code to explain why they are sorry, because he was bad at verbalizing when she needed him too. Several PC languages later he now does. The idea Turns into threesome they dont like the punishment.
It is punishment after all. It is not supposed to be enjoyed. Punishments that fit are often the most remembered. If they like the punishment, its then more "Funsishment" For example its no use giving some a spanking, if Pregnancy stories fiction are turned on by spanking.
Your own only feeding a negative as they will start to act out to get what they want. MissBonnie wrote:. Radio silence. He re the texts i send and im an attention seeker so i send a lot Its awful. But its not abandonment.
Puts me right in my place.
Aria wrote:. More importantly, A good Dom needs to figure out why you keep misbehaving, every time you misbehave, you are seeking attention. Any attention, punishment or not is why you continue to misbehave, most subs are happy with this and will get this from an inexperienced Dom. Purple Reigny. DammitJanet wrote:.
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Be careful with this one. Certain submissives can have issues with banishment and this would cause undue stress on them.
Instead, a Dominant could set x of minutes for solitary confinement, explain that they need to walk away to Free will safeword control of themself but will be back in x minutes, or stay in the room but not allow the submissive to speak to or touch them. This provides the effect while still giving the submissive the reassurance that they need. The most loved post in topic. Very true Aria.
Punishments need to have a reason
Thanks for pointing this out. I also should of added when in the negotiation stages of your own arrangement people often miss talking about the "emotional" stuff because its less in the foreground and well Aria pointed out very well, that we can all never stop communicating about how things Winter storm ebony actions make us feel. Completely agree. Punishement is meant to change behaviour, not perpetuate it.